Pleasure and Power (2)

One thing that can be noticed is that boys tend to use love to get physical pleasure. Girls, on the other hand use physical pleasure to get love. It might seem like a fair deal, right? No. It is dangerous, but it is amazing how many people do not care.

When people engage in physical pleasure, there is a strong bond formed. People give their soul to the other person. So engaging in such activity is a promise. This is no clique, but a fact. Many people have become deluded into thinking that sex is casual. Really, there is no such thing as "casual sex".

Thus, sex can be used by people as a form of social control. When it is done outside a fully (yes, 100%) committed relationship, it will leave emotional pain on people. When people are enticed into engaging in such activity with another, people are being trapped into giving one's soul to another. Don't believe me? 

Ask yourself how many happy stable marriage are there between people who have engaged in premarital and extramarital sex. 

It is important that people are careful of those who act in a lewd manner or those who dress promiscuously.

You should not feel that you have to trust these people or be friendly with them. Because you don't.